Monday, February 21, 2011

9:30 Club

Yay DC Bucket List! This week, I finally made it to a concert at DC's famed hipster haven, "The 9:30 Club."

For my western Mass readers, the 9:30 club brought memories rushing back of nights at Northampton's Pearl St. It's a small venue that caters to local, under the radar, or college-station performers. It's located in DC's U street neighborhood, which means it is way "cooler" and "off the beaten path" than many hot spots in the city. From the outside, the building looks unmentionable, almost abandoned. Only a few neon spray-painted parking signs tell you you're at the right place.

The venue isn't large at all. The capacity is for a little more than 1000 people, and there is no seating- just an open floor in front of a small wooden stage. The room felt like a large dance studio, dimly lit except for the purple glow of the stage lights. Fog machines add to the mystic effect of the space. In fact, it is so intimate that microphones aren't entirely necessary, and at times the musicians walked towards the front of stage and sang directly to the crowd. Each side of the wooden floor had a bar, and the back of the venue had a small cafe.

I don't ever pretend to be hip when it comes to music, and I never know about new artists or sweet local bands. But I surround myself with people cooler than me, so they always introduce me to new music. We saw Josh Radin play. He had a gorgeous voice and definitely fit in with my John Mayer "white guy with a guitar" preferences. Apparently, Ellen DeGeneres used one of his songs at her wedding, so you know he's good. Here's a video of him below:



I love my city and how much there is to do and see here. There are millions of other music venues to try- we had a great time and resolved to get out and see a concert more often!

Peace and Love.

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Reeling, Reflecting, Re-evaluating: The TFA 20th anniversary Summit

I'm not really ready to write this blog post. My brain is still spinning too much, my heart is still beating too fast. This weekend, I attended the Teach For America 20th Anniversary Summit here in DC. I'm never at a loss for words, but I'm struggling to illustrate the emotional magnitude of a weekend that was so extreme and condense an event that was so enormous.

The event, in many ways, paralleled the Teach For America experience itself. 11,000 of the nation's brightest and most passionate leaders descended upon the Convention Center. The number of alumni nation-wide and the work they do, coupled with the extreme displays of heart, innovation and persistence was utterly inspiring. But the hard facts of the crisis in our country leave your soul feeling beaten to a pulp. It's what we struggle with every day in the classroom and in this movement: "This is a solvable problem and I can make a difference," vs. "The problem and the layers behind the problem are so stunningly huge, who am I to do anything?" In 20 years, we've done so much. But in 20 years, we've done nothing at all- the achievement gap has actually grown.

Optimists speaking at the convention repeated a common theme: The difference between now and 20 years ago is that we know what works. 20 years ago there was not one example of turning around a failed school or school district, there were no successful charter models and a good teacher was a rare, natural phenomenon. Now, thanks in great part to the work of TFA'ers nation wide, we have expansive charter school networks defying the odds and obliterating the achievement gap, research about teacher training, and models for successful administration and funding. We have hard data to back up our claims. There was the rallying cry for a revolution at the conference. The theory is that now we know what works, we have to move whoever or whatever is in the way of implementing reforms and saving our kids.

I saw some real spitfires speak at this conference. Among my favorites were classic rebel rousers Joel Klein, Geoffrey Canada, and Michelle Rhee. My new favorite guy was John Deasy. He was the former Superintendent of PG County Public schools and will take over in Los Angeles this year. He was so bold and direct and passionate. I loved him.

It wasn't all dark and serious, though. Personally entertaining moments abounded. Malcolm Gladwell delighted everyone with a taste of nerd humor, but I thought he was upstaged by panelist Gloria Steinem's low cut shirt that flaunted her saggy, braless, 70-year-old feminist boobs. Newly-elected DC Mayor Vince Gray might be the most awkward public speaker I have ever seen. His speech reminded me of the old SNL Will Ferrell sketch about voice immodulation. And of course, no one complained about John Legend live in concert. He.. is.. so.. beautiful.

My friend, Spain roommate, and Mississippi corps member Shana stayed with me for the weekend, but she wasn't the only long lost friend in town. Syracuse friends, Massachusetts friends, institute friends, people I have not seen for years- all under the same roof. It's so funny how my paths have diverged and reconnected with people under the TFA umbrella. It was impossible to see everyone I wanted between sessions, job fairs, dinners, and speakers.

I am exhausted and this post is already too long. Another busy week is ahead. Happy Singles' Awareness day to everyone tomorrow!

Peace and Love.

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Gecko Drama


I preface this entry by saying: I understand that geckos are not capable of love. I know that Geeky doesn't know me and will never wag his tail or bark for my attention. I know that he is not capable of higher level thought and that he's just a stupid lizard. But I've had him since my freshman year of college- and he's listened to a lot of boy problems and witnessed a lot of drama. He's been a source of entertainment for family and friends, he's been a muse for artists, and he's my special little dino. So when he got sick this month, I wasn't going to let him suffer. I had to take him to the vet and make my little friend well!

Geeky stopped eating a few weeks ago, and I knew that was a bad sign. He's done this before- a few years ago, he got hook worm and needed parasitic treatment. It was dramatic to treat him then too. Do you know how many vets laugh at you when you ask if they'll see a gecko? Parasites were my first suspicion, but then I noticed that his left eye seemed cloudy. I called my dad, who said it sounded like it could be a bacterial infection of some sort and that I should get him to the vet right away. Honestly, how long can a gecko withstand systemic bacterial infection?

After many calls, I finally found Dr. Stahl in Fairfax, VA and headed out Thursday night through rush hour traffic to Fairfax . Dr. Stahl was the answer to my prayers to St. Francis. As soon as I walked into the practice, I knew I was in good hands. There were gorgeous framed National Geographic-style photos of lizards on the walls. There were statues of birds, reptiles, and turtles adorning arboretum in the middle of the office. And best of all, the walls were tiled to look like reptile skin!

Dr. Stahl was so caring and compassionate to my little friend. He is a famous reptile doctor, so he had interns from all over the country studying with him and checking out little Geeky! I asked him to teach me anything he could and he was very generous with his time. He drew me diagrams, showed me different parts of Geeky's anatomy, and explained to me every in and out of Geeky's illness.

As it turns out, Geeky is a girl. And Geeky wanted to lay some eggs! Her belly was swollen with two pea-sized, half grown eggs that were responsible for depleting levels of Vitamin A in her system. The brand of reptile vitamins I use didn't have sufficient Vitamin A to replace it, and so her immune system began to fail and she fell prey to natural bacteria in her own system. Her little mouth was swollen and infected, her eye was infected, and she also had skin problems. All needed mini-surgery, so the doctor drained the infection in her mouth, cleaned out her eye, and removed the dead skin from her face and feet.

My poor little Geek was exhausted by the end of the night, and so was I. I loved learning about reptile medicine, but am embarrassed to report that watching my friend bleed left me a little faint and nauseous. At one point the doctor joked, "Are you ok, mom?" I'm sure I was pale and clammy! I don't know how I'm ever going to have children. Geek (whom I will now refer to as "she") is on a system of antibiotics, vitamins and creams and we are hoping for a full recovery. She is shedding her skin today so I gave her a warm bath and have been doting on her incessantly.

My dad wanted to know how many new geckos I could have bought with the bill from the vet. I told him that is NOT the point! Thanks to everyone who's had a smile and a thought for me and Geek this week. A pet is a pet and you don't become a pet owner to let them suffer or give up on them when they're sick. Peace and Love- I will update you all about her progress soon!


Sunday, January 30, 2011

24 is Wicked Old

24. Wow! I am now in my mid-twenties. Cue the quarter-life crisis, John Mayer! 24 is old. I got my first batch of grey hairs this year. I go to sleep at 9:30 pm. I'm filing taxes with something other than the 1040 EZ. Disgusting! College is a far distant memory. Where has my youth gone?

Ok, melo-drama over. I had a lovely birthday week and can't thank the big man upstairs enough for the gift of a 2-day work week. It was a wintery mess here this week in DC and we had no school Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and a delay Friday. It was the perfect chance to network for jobs, cross things off my "to-do" list, and enjoy some terrible reality TV.

Friday night, my roomies treated me to dinner at "Founding Farmers." It had to be the best food I've eaten in DC. It's the perfect menu of delicious, simple, locally-sourced American fare. Everything is hand made and cooked to perfection- fresh fish and game, warm crispy flatbreads, home-made pasta...mmm. The cocktails are to die for. Best of all was the ambiance- unlike many fancy restaurants, Founding Farmers is relaxed and comfortable. You feel like you could stay there for hours, and you do! We followed dinner with a few rounds of billiards downtown and some dancing in Dupont.

Saturday was my party at our house, and it was a huge success. My friends brought delicious treats but the winning dish was JinSoo's Pumpkin Cheesecake. Props to Kate P for the photography below, she caught me at the perfect birthday moment:

We ate, drank and danced the night away- well, Wii danced that is. Betsy bought a Wii and it arrived right in the middle of the snowstorm (thank you USPS!) It is our new obsession and was a huge party hit. Seeing huge boys dancing to Beyonce was hilarious and our chandelier almost hit the deck more than once. To finish the night, we caught a cab to H st and danced at Sticky Rice until closing time. I may have skipped the gym all weekend but I know it can't matter all that much considering how many hours my friends and I logged on the dance floor!

Many thanks to all for the birthday love and warm wishes. Peace and Love!

Monday, January 24, 2011

Food and Libations

Twice a year, Washington DC restaurants open their doors to the general public for the glorious festival known as Restaurant Week. The arrival of Restaurant week is always a cause for celebration for me and my roommates. It's a chance for us to go to some of the fancier dining establishments in the city that we could never afford. For $25-35 bucks, most restaurants make a 4-course menu, showing off their favorite plates and most famous dishes.

We've discovered some of our favorite spots in DC from Restaurant Week adventures. This week, we went to Georgetown for some fresh seafood at a place called "Hook." The food was ok, not as great as some of our other restaurants we've tried, but like always, I love meeting my friends and getting out on a weeknight!



The rest of the week was quiet. Wednesday brought grad school, Thursday a quiet night in, and Friday I went babysitting at my favorite "Little Dino"'s house. He is a darling. I have not seen him since Christmas, and he had piles of new Thomas the Tank Engine books for us to read. It makes me laugh at how little has changed. Thomas of 20 years ago and Thomas now are completely identical. The show is the same- puppets that hardly move, the trains' eyes rolling around to show their feelings, the same sound effects. It brings me right back!



The weekend was also low-key. We had TFA professional development and went for a round of mini-golf to putt out the tensions of an extra day of boring teacher talk. And Sunday of course brought the demise of Rex Ryan and all that is horrible and wrong in the NFL. Go Steelers!

This week should be a delight. The next time I write... I'll be 24!!!
Peace and Love.

Monday, January 17, 2011

Sucker-punch!

It's over. Over! The 2010-2011 NFL season has come to a sucker-punch of a close. I didn't think it was supposed to go this way. The arrogant, trash-talking, classless teams are not supposed to win! How is anyone supposed to teach their kids about good sportsmanship in this day and age? I hate the Jets! I hate them! Can't wait to see what Fitzy has to say- I'm sure it will cheer me up.

Ok, rant over. Sunday did hurt, but in the context of the rest of the week, it was a small blow compared to all the fantastic things I did in the last few days. And hey...April is just a few months away!

Tuesday night, I went with a friend to see "Waiting For Superman," yet again. This time it was sponsored by a panel of businesses and playing in Chinatown, so we made a night out of it and got dinner before the film and panel discussion afterwards. Again I stress: If you have not seen this film yet, go! The story it tells, especially to those not directly working in education reform, is stunning. You'll never think about school the same way again!
Wednesday night brought the onslaught of grad school, which I am not thrilled about. But they say every time God closes a door, he opens a window. In this case, our proverbial window is the brand-new Ihop right next door to where we take classes. Late night classes go down a little easier with the thought of chocolate chip pancakes and bacon beforehand.

Thursday, I had a great meeting with a friend of Dr. Charles who works here in DC. The job search process is daunting but the more people I know, and more hands I shake, the better chance I have of landing somewhere meaningful next year. Following the meeting, Brian Spendley and I met up to grab food and see a performance of the National Symphony Orchestra. Being in the Kennedy Center had me skipping with joy- it is overwhelmingly beautiful, and I felt so lucky to live here in DC and have friends with whom to share beautiful classical music.

Friday finally was a chance to veg- so the girls and I bundled up in our snuggies and rented "Despicable Me." Saturday and Sunday were dominated by football watching, and brunch with Meredith's parents.

It's been a non-stop week, and we're going to keep rolling tomorrow. It's Restaurant Week here in DC and we are NOT ones to miss out on 4 course meals at the Capital's fanciest dining establishments for $25. So to Georgetown we go, off for another crazy and wonderful week!

Peace and Love.
T

Sunday, January 9, 2011

New Year's Resolution #1- Write a Blog Entry every Sunday.


Wow- the first entry of 2011. I'm stoked. 11 has been my lucky number since the 4th grade. That year, my anal-retentive teacher assigned us all numbers on popsicle sticks. These numbers dictated our daily activities like hot lunch orders or line leaders. After an entire year of being called "11," instead of "Tori", it kind of sticks with you. So 2011 is here- and I'm ready to embrace it.

Resolution number one- write a blog entry every Sunday night. 4 entries a month- minimum. I've been dedicated to this blog since 2008 and I can't stop now. It's cool now to be able to read about what I was doing at this exact moment a year or even two years ago!

The first weekend of 2011 was a special one. Kat(ie) Hornstein was in town! I've been begging her to visit me for years, and thanks to a sweet Southwest.com sale, she finally made the trip to our nation's capital. She came with me to school on Friday, where we visited the Cosmotology department and got our hair curled by my students during my planning period. Check it out below!

Saturday the two of us took a trip to the Newseum here in DC. All I can say is that I've never been to a more beautiful, interesting or heart-wrenching place. The Newseum tells the history of the media around the world, and included exhibits like the Pullitzer gallery of photos and a tribute to the heroes of 9/11. Katie and I giggled at the Elvis wing and laughed learning that George Washington's dogs were named "Drunkard" and "Tipsy." I think they would have been friends with Brewer and Barley, don't you?

Saturday night we went out on the town. When you've only got one night in DC, Adams Morgan must be your destination. The famous strip of bars and clubs didn't disappoint and we enjoyed a night of dancing and living it up.

I am so happy she came and lucky she and I are such good friends. Peace and Love to everyone in the new year!